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Chandler Fowles knew it wouldn’t be simple to move from Mystic, Conn., to New York City last year. Her degree in art history and fine arts from Eastern Connecticut State University wasn’t helping her land any job worth sticking around for. She and her mother weren’t speaking at all after a particularly bad argument. The cost of living (and partying) was more than she could manage, along with her ,000 in college student loan debt.

When you are 24 years old, jobless, boyfriend-less and in a fight with your mom, moving to one of the most glamorous, ballyhooed cities in the world can seem like a good idea. Last winter, a friend told her about the concept of “sugar-dating”: a “sugar baby” (most often a woman or a gay man) connecting with a “sugar daddy” (a man) in a relationship that offers financial support in exchange for companionship and possibly sex.

When a man takes initiative it’s showing that he wants me, just the way I am.”In talking to 18 sex-havers, the biggest themes to emerge were checking in for consent and being more verbal overall.

Additionally, many people I talked to expressed that it was mega-hot when their partner demonstrated desire for them specifically (as opposed to just being a ball of horniness who needs to come).

Of course, it’s always best to talk to your actual partner and not just go off of what you’ve read online, but here’s some useful intel to get you started. You don’t have to start completely filthy; the goal is just to turn the other person on and let them know just what you have in mind after this episode of “I like some dirty talk beforehand.

Sometimes, we dirty talk and it’s not serious and we’re just kidding around, but when we are serious we just ask each other to make sure and then it’s smooth sailing...

I don’t like when a guy just starts touching me out of nowhere.

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