Dating guys who have children
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.). (aka "Baby ready now") is a dating website specifically for people who want to be upfront with potential partners about their desire to have children. K.'s The Guardian:"I couldn't seem to meet anyone willing to prioritise starting a family and struggled with when to mention wanting kids any time I met someone new. Then one day I read a profile from a 38-year-old who said she knew it was 'really bad to admit' but she wanted children.
The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan."On some sites, there was an option to click saying: 'I'd like kids someday,' but you would read the person's profile and think: 'You will never have time!' If someone's going to the gym eight times a week and travelling every month, they are not putting a family first."Hmmm, I think it's totally feasible that someone might want to hit the gym, travel, have a life and also be willing to make time for parenthood.Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.These are just a few theories by friends, co-workers and myself.