Dating advice wrong number
We’ve all gotten advice at some point or another in our lives. “Just be yourself” takes the cake as being the worst piece of advice you can possibly get. By being yourself, and being the same person who has an ineffective dating life, you will not succeed!
People love giving their two cents to others when it concerns something they presume themselves to be an expert in. People who say, “Just be yourself,” really mean “Just be your part.
You basically sit through two hours of torture watching some crappy movie about god-knows-what, and when it finally ends and the lights turn on, you’ve virtually spent two boring and awkward-filled hours with a complete stranger! And oh yeah, take all of this advice about not going to the movies, and times it by 10 when it comes to dinner dates! Unless you are older than 50, take her someplace fun like Dave and Buster’s, karaoking, mini-golfing, a fair, a park, dancing, an event, even go kart racing.
All of these ideas beat the hell out of doing nothing but watching a movie or watching each other eat!
Kissing her at the end of the date is okay, but waiting until the end of the date to kiss her for the first time is not.
If you have to wait until the very end of the date to lock lips with your woman, you’ve done something wrong.
Keep this in mind when you are deciding who is and who is not “girlfriend material.” Being “The Nice Guy” is not an effective strategy when trying to woo a woman.Maybe it gave men a certain belief and entitlement that they never had before; so for that, I can forgive many guys for believing this. Not paying for a woman want to take out says one thing to a woman, “This guy is cheap!” I am not saying that you should lead with your money and get flashy or that you should pay for everything; but I am saying women still feel that men should pay (or at least offer to) when he takes her out on a date.The “Just Be Nice and She’ll Like You” crap is one of the worst dating advice for men strategies I can think of! When you try acting a certain way, you act incongruently with your inner emotions and your true self.It literally drives me up the wall when I hear this because it’s so wrong! Women see right through this façade, and they never see the man favorably.